Reset

I’m currently feeling
Reset.

My thoughts creating this feeling:
Shifting my mindset to concentrate on the positives in my relationship and all the good things I have. I have security, some level of autonomy, freedom to do what I want most of the time. I am loved in his own way even if it’s not the way I would like. He is thoughtful when it matters, even if he doesn’t always realise when I need more emotional support. He is kind. I need to learn to be happy with that, but I do want to challenge the other aspects of a husband and wife relationship that he doesn’t. I wish we would talk. I wish I could tell him how I feel without being shut down a told I’m being paranoid. One day I maybe brave enough.

My extraordinary goal for the year is…
To be financially savvy again. Planning for early retirement by getting back on track with understanding my savings, investments and pensions.

What result will I produce this month?
Can’t get a pensions forecast until 12 months before planned retirement date. C has all the other information to have a conversation with the financial advisor about the other schemes. In the meantime, same all I can.

My tasks for the day is…
A few meetings. If I don’t get caught in traffic I’ll have time for a JWW when I get home. Then out for learners practice again.

What thoughts are holding me back? 
Its going to be below freezing all day today. Will need to thoroughly wrap up and keep warm as best I can.

What thought will I practice instead?
At least I can put the heating on at work and stay in the office.

What can I remove, elevate, upgrade or add to my style to embody my future self?
Black trousers, black and white jumper. Gibraltar bracelet, diamond hoop earrings and multistone necklace. Warm and comfy.

What can I remove, elevate, upgrade or add to align with my future self’s environment?
Hopefully a JWW tonight. Haven’t been able to do one in almost a week.

What am I excited to practice and improve?
Learing about money matters. Need to do more research to understand how to maximise my potential.

My progress and my blessings
I can research and find books etc that will help me navigate the complexities of personal finance.

What do I declare myself to be today?
Investigative.

What questions can I ask of myself today?
What can I learn about maximising savings today?

What words of encouragement, insight, wisdom or humour does my future self have for me today?
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