Uplevelling

My 30 Day Goal is:
Declutter my corner of the lounge and swap winter/summer wardrobes.

Current Thought:
My very first SOSI WOTY was Elegance. I wanted to become a more elegant, feminine woman. So I started investing in elegant behaviours. I bought flowers every other week to help my surroundings become more elegant, I started treating myself to a massage once a month and allow myself time for self care, as an elegant woman would. I started upgrading my wardrobe with more classically elegant pieces, and tried to embody the elegant woman I wanted to be. I still have a way to go, and sometimes when I think I look and feel elegant, I meet a friend who does it effortlessly and instantly I feel like a frump again. I’m not spending money on clothes and jewellry this month as I already have enough, and need to be maximising my savings for retirement. I did however, invest in an Essence of Elegance course, and watched all five modules yesterday. It reminded me how I can still dress elegantly when I’m casual, and how to put outfits together, whatever the occasion. It gave some really good tips on how to shop for elegant pieces. It was a good reminder of the woman I wanted to create.

Current Emotion
Uplevelling.

Todays Standard:
I am a woman who:
can shop her wardrobe and create elegant, feminine outfits whatever the occasion.

Todays Sweet Spot:
I think:
I can behave in an elegant manner whomever I’m with.

I feel:
I can reconnect with my elegant self.

I do:
1) (body) ringing, maybe a workout later.
2) (mind) re learn a method for today’s ringing.
3) (soul) Re engage with elegance.

Future Self Pep Talk:
Elegant style and surroundings has given you the basics ready for an elegant transition into a different season of life.

Celebrations/Gratitudes:
Scored yesterdays quarter peal after the funeral. My shoulders complained later on in the day because of the massage, but at least we scored it and it was pretty well struck too.